In love we can be easily hurt because we...

In love we can be easily hurt because we trust the other person.

Love is the most beautiful thing of all. It is contained in several, basic steps: attaining, giving, receiving and becoming love. We love without any expectation of getting anything in return. Though we try to love, as purely and truly as we can, even if we have not been loved. Sometimes this feeling blinds us, so we can not notice the true face of a loved one. It means that in love we can be easily hurt because we implicitly trust the other person. Love is not supposed to hurt. If it does, then it is absolutely not a true love. I think that love is the most incredible thing in the world, but when people lie and betray our trust, we blame love.Lovers can easily hurt the beloved without intending to do so. Because the lovers are so significant to each other, any innocent remark or action can be interpreted in a manner that the other person did not intend and hence behurtful. The worst part about the heart break is that we lose ourselves, trying to hold on that person who does not care at all. There are several reasons why we can be easily hurt by trusting.  

            Firstly, we do not see defects of the other person. Love is closely connected with vulnerability: the ability to hurt and to be hurt. Although some kinds of hurt in love are intended, most of them are not. Lovers are often blind to the beloved's negative traits and tend to create an idealized image of the beloved. We often love the idealized object rather than the real one. If a person hurts us, we tell ourselves that she is innocent and we are able to forgive almost everything. Secondly, if you are wondering about your future life and your partner avoids these questions by saying that it is good, as it is and, you do not have to change anything. It means that it does not take your relationship seriously. Of course, not everyone must have a need to have children or stand in front of the altar, but talking about the future, even the close one, is a sign of feeling and love. By trusting this person, you can be hurt in the future because he may not reciprocate your feelings.

In conclusion, in love we can be easily hurt because we trust the other person. Trust is one of the keystones of any relationship, without it two people cannot be comfortable with each other and the relationship lacks stability. It also allows us to display our thoughts and feelings openly and honestly, because we regard our partner as supportive and don’t worry that they will judge, ridicule or reject us. However, if the other person does not reciprocate our feelings, betray us and lies to us, we can be easily hurt. Often being blinded by love, we do not immediately see all the faults in the relationship, so it's easy to be disappointed afterwards. That is why it is important to trust but not to be blinded and aware of the features and decisions of the partner who does not always reciprocate our feelings.