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„ One mustn’t close one’s eyes to difficulty and to shortcomings, the more one recognizes them, the less they upset one”

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

            Every day we meet problems. They can hurt us, so sometimes it seems to be better, for us to hide them and then act. It is a very big mistake, because over time the problem is getting bigger and bigger. By hiding everything, we cannot run away from it. Later it can give us more pain and can hurt us twice as strong as we expected at the beginning. Therefore, when we meet the problem and it seems that we cannot solve this, first of all we should change our perspective of seeing it because it is very important to recognize it and solve it before the problem overwhelms us. All problems may became smaller when we can breast them instead of escaping responsibility. On the other hand, sometimes it is not that we cannot find the solution but we cannot see the problem or try to solve the wrong aspect of the problem, because we try to focus on the wrong thing.

            Firstly, unfortunately, avoiding your problems usually causes them to come back, and a small problem can become a big problem over time. When we accept that the problem already exists and stop resisting it then you also stop putting more energy into it and stressing out. You can use that energy which previously fed the problem and looked bigger than it was before, to find creative solutions to the challenge.We often make a mistake of thinking our negative emotions are the problem. This is false.  Use your negative emotions to guide you for example when you are feeling anxious or frustrated in a particular situation, try to find the problem that is making you feel that way. Secondly, solving a problem can sometimes seem overwhelming and impossible. It will be easier to us to break a problem by identifying the different parts it consists of and focus one by one on each. The biggest mistake that we tend to make when finding solutions to our problems is to think about the same old solutions. However, if those old solutions worked, the problem would not still be around. Life without problems would not be life at all, but when a few problems appear, it is difficult to find strength to actually sit down and think about them rationally. Perhaps, the one thing we can do is to work on each of them one at a time.

            In conclusion, we should not shut ourselves down to any difficulties in our lives, but go against them and look for solutions that will eliminate them forever.Sometimes it is difficult for us because we feel fear and frustration but this is life, which means overcoming these negative emotions and solving problems.

Compare reading at home to reading in a library.

Everyone likes reading. We read everywhere, starting with reading at home and ending with reading in a library. There is no better companion than a good book but it also matters where we read. To decide well, we should compare these two places and think about their advantages and disadvantages. It is important to think about where it is better to read for us, which will help us to move into the world described in the book and to understand the message contained in it.

The first contrast between these two examples is that reading at home is more comfortable for us because it is better to focus on something in the surroundings that we know, whereas reading in a library is something much different. In contrast, library is a public place, where are other people who can disturb us. The advantage of reading at home is that we can sit comfortably, cover ourselves with a blanket and sip tea with pleasure while reading. Sometimes it is worth to cut yourself off from the world and relax in silence. Comparing, we should keep silence in the library and we cannot bring food. On the other side in a library, we have a very large selection of books that we can choose when we are there. Being at home to read a book, we must pre-order it, spend money and wait a few days for the parcel. Where we prefer to read often depends also on the situation in which we find ourselves. For example when we live with other people, it is hard to concentrate because just at the same moment when we need silence, they listen to loud music or talk to someone. The library can then be the only place where we can read the book in silence. The above differences show us that where we prefer to read, very often depends on our preferences and the situation in which we find ourselves.

In conclusion, reading at home is for someone who likes privacy and lives alone or with someone who will not disturb him while reading. Reading in the library will be the perfect solution for someone who likes places where he can sit beside his own home. Reading at home and reading in a library differ from each other and if I had a choice, I would certainly choose the first one.

Writing is a life-enhancing activity.

It is a common opinion that writing is a life-enhancing activity. Every day people get involved with the writing process, for example at school, at home or at work. Writing skills are an important part of communication. Good writing skills allow you to communicate your message with clarity and ease to a far larger audience than through face-to-face. The primary reason for writing anything is to communicate with others, to stimulate interest or action from the reader. You may also use writing to help you to reflect on your experiences and learn from them. While studying at the university a key way of assessing the progress and learning of students is the written work which you produce. When we write, we are writing for ourselves or we are writing for others. We do it all the time so it is important to know how it can be a life-enhancing activity. Aside from the fact that writing is a necessary part of everyday life, there are many good reasons you should make a good session of writing part of your daily routine, even if it is just a few sentences. You do not have to be a pro to reap the benefits of writing. Here are some examples of how writing improves the quality of our lives.

Firstly, if you have problems with your emotions and concentrations, writing is a perfect way to express yourself and sort your thoughts. It will help you be more confident and relaxed. The act of thinking about problems, as well as expressing emotions, seems to be important. Writing helps people to organize thoughts and give meaning to a traumatic experience. When people open up privately about a traumatic event, they are more likely to talk with others about it by writing because it is easier than conversation by face-to-face. Secondly, writing broaden your horizons and let you gain new knowledge which is very desirable in nowadays. You will communicate with clarity. Unlike talking, when you write you look for more sophisticated words and expressions to describe what you have in mind. This helps you build a structure that will allow you to express yourself better and communicate complex ideas in a much more effective way. Plenty of those words, which are put together will begin to find their way in into your verbal communication skills. You will start to use an expanded vocabulary, which will leave a better impression of you and on the person, you are communicating with. Both your personal and professional lives stand to benefit from this. Thirdly, writing is relaxing. If you are feeling stressed out or anxious, writing for relaxation can help relieve some of your stress, leaving you feeling calm and at peace.Writing can serve as a form of cathartic stress relief where you finally get to say what you can’t say out loud, in real life.

In love we can be easily hurt because we trust the other person.

Love is the most beautiful thing of all. It is contained in several, basic steps: attaining, giving, receiving and becoming love. We love without any expectation of getting anything in return. Though we try to love, as purely and truly as we can, even if we have not been loved. Sometimes this feeling blinds us, so we can not notice the true face of a loved one. It means that in love we can be easily hurt because we implicitly trust the other person. Love is not supposed to hurt. If it does, then it is absolutely not a true love. I think that love is the most incredible thing in the world, but when people lie and betray our trust, we blame love.Lovers can easily hurt the beloved without intending to do so. Because the lovers are so significant to each other, any innocent remark or action can be interpreted in a manner that the other person did not intend and hence behurtful. The worst part about the heart break is that we lose ourselves, trying to hold on that person who does not care at all. There are several reasons why we can be easily hurt by trusting.  

            Firstly, we do not see defects of the other person. Love is closely connected with vulnerability: the ability to hurt and to be hurt. Although some kinds of hurt in love are intended, most of them are not. Lovers are often blind to the beloved's negative traits and tend to create an idealized image of the beloved. We often love the idealized object rather than the real one. If a person hurts us, we tell ourselves that she is innocent and we are able to forgive almost everything. Secondly, if you are wondering about your future life and your partner avoids these questions by saying that it is good, as it is and, you do not have to change anything. It means that it does not take your relationship seriously. Of course, not everyone must have a need to have children or stand in front of the altar, but talking about the future, even the close one, is a sign of feeling and love. By trusting this person, you can be hurt in the future because he may not reciprocate your feelings.

In conclusion, in love we can be easily hurt because we trust the other person. Trust is one of the keystones of any relationship, without it two people cannot be comfortable with each other and the relationship lacks stability. It also allows us to display our thoughts and feelings openly and honestly, because we regard our partner as supportive and don’t worry that they will judge, ridicule or reject us. However, if the other person does not reciprocate our feelings, betray us and lies to us, we can be easily hurt. Often being blinded by love, we do not immediately see all the faults in the relationship, so it's easy to be disappointed afterwards. That is why it is important to trust but not to be blinded and aware of the features and decisions of the partner who does not always reciprocate our feelings.